Responsibility for Self
If we desire to experience more balance, happiness and joy in our lives we must be willing to take absolute responsibility for our self.
Perhaps you feel like life is coming at you and events or circumstances of your life are beyond your control. Many people feel that way especially with the roller coaster economy we all have to deal with.
When we can heal to remember that we experience absolutely everything “within our body” then it starts to become easier to realize that “only our self” is creating what we will ever experience.
The two strongest body senses most operate upon are visual sight and audible sound. Of course someone who is dealing with visual sight blindness or deafness are not dealing with believing life is coming at them in the same way.
We do not see with our eyes or hear with our ears in the manner in which the masses believe they do. Our eyes simply take in energy that move through the inner layers of the eyes and to the brain. The brain then creates the images we “think” we see with our eyes “inside the brain”. We do not see the image unless the eyes can work to take energy into the brain.
We do not hear with our ears as we may think we do. The ears receive energy as frequency wave patterns which move through the inner ear and create a vibration. We do not hear unless this process works and the inner vibration is created.
So the only thing that is “coming at us” is energy which the senses of the body then translate to allow us to become aware of. Understanding how the body’s 5 senses work is pretty fascinating but they work to allow us to become aware “inside of our body”, not outside of our body.
Quantum Physics have finally proven that matter is an illusion or a hologram but they have yet to discover how the illusion of matter is created. Forgetting the truth of creation when we birth into the baby body turns off the memory of how the illusion of matter is created but we should all know that as we are creating the illusion via our body senses.
All will eventually heal to remember such truth but for now we can allow our self to understand more about the way the body works to allow us to have the life experience.
The life experience is the result of the interaction of the energy that our body is made of and the energy the body draws unto itself and part of that process includes the “chemicals” which make up the body. Chemicals are elements that group together to create a “reaction” within the body.
When we draw energy unto our body that creates a chemical reaction that allows us to have what we may consider to be a negative experience we are experiencing our thoughts and beliefs drawing the necessary to us and into our body to allow us to experience what our thoughts and beliefs experience as.
Our body is designed to ensure we will experience what we are thinking and what we believe. If we believe that life is coming at us and we have no power over the process then we are allowing the process to occur “consciously unaware” that we have anything to do with it and this makes us feel like we are playing the role of a victim and there is nothing we can do about our life experience.
Everything within creation is energy and the life experience occurs via our body form to allow us to experience energy, energy which is “thought patterns”.
If we have been programmed to think and believe life is a certain way and that we are limited in what we can experience then simply because we believe that to be true we are limiting our self in what we will be able to experience because the body will work to “only allow us to experience what we believe”.
We begin gathering and building our beliefs from the infant stage via experiencing life but because all have forgotten the truth of how the life experience occurs we “think” life is happening to us instead of remembering that we are creating it within our self.
We are not a victim of circumstances we are a victim to our own thoughts and beliefs. When we can remember these truths then we become empowered to take back control of our life experience. We can do so by becoming “thought aware” and really taking a hard look at our beliefs.
We have spent our entire life to this point to build our belief systems so we have spent a whole lot of time and energy ensuring that our body is creating exactly what we believe. It will take some time to re-create our belief systems to be what we “desire to experience” instead of what we currently believe we must experience.
As stated in a previous post, it is a process of re-seeding thought patterns within our self and only seeding what we desire to experience but at the same time becoming thought aware, aware of our thoughts that are creating the opposite of what we desire to experience.
This is why we must take absolute responsibility for our self, everything we have experienced and everything we will experience because no one is doing it to us, we are doing it to our self.
This can be a hard truth to come face to face with especially if there has been an experience of being seriously wronged by the actions of others. No one would intentionally draw such experiences to their self but such can occur via the thoughts running wild and making choices that allow us to meet up with energy that will create such experiences. Some experiences can be extremely difficult to heal within because they can be so extreme that the individual is not able to step out of the role of playing the victim.
Healing from traumatic experiences takes time and it may require assistance from a qualified individual but it is possible and can occur much faster if we focus on our personal relationship with Source within our self.
When we allow our self to continue to feel as though we have been victimized by another we are blocking flows of energy within our self, energy that can allow us to heal and we continue to give our energy away to whomever we feel is responsible for the traumatic experience. Who loses? The person who played their role in the process does not lose because they are living their own life within their own body. We are the one who loses because we create our own living hell within our own body.
That does not mean the other person is not responsible for their actions and requires a whole lot of healing but they showed up to play a role via the energy of our thoughts, beliefs and choices that drew them to us. It may simply be a matter of not being aware of the environment around us and not being cautious to protect our self from the actions of others when we pass through imbalanced thought patterns.
We cannot heal anyone but our self because each person is creating their own life within their self but we can heal our self and allow others to experience what they create while at the same time protecting our self from others thoughts and creations.
The strongest protection we can create comes from within our self and first believing that we are held within protection at all times and then becoming consciously aware of our surroundings and environment to ensure we make the necessary choices to ensure our safety.
Healing can only begin within our self and part of the process of healing into balance is healing to be able to take responsibility for our self. If we give our self responsibility away to others then we are opening our self to chaotic thought patterns that will draw the necessary energy to us to allow us to experience chaotic thought experiences.
There is a whole lot of imbalance that requires healing within the world and a whole lot of imbalanced people sharing the world with us so there will always be someone to play a necessary role to allow us to experience our thoughts and what we believe about our self.
When we focus on just the life experience and think it is all occurring outside of our self then we are not using our power to take control of our life experience. It is all energy, all of creation is energy and matter manifest is an illusion that only exists when someone is looking, to use the words of Quantum Physics. That means that we are the only one creating the illusion of manifest matter.
As we continue to heal to become more aware of our personal energy then we can remember how to “sense energy” which is a very helpful ability to allow us to become more aware of the energy that we are held within and discern before we make choices.
If we believe that we must gain revenge for an experience that involved another role player then we are not taking responsibility for our self but are giving our energy away to the other role player. The old saying that speaks, “an eye for an eye” is a false belief based upon an entire population believing they are a victim to circumstance and have no control over it. Imbalance does not create balance, it only creates more imbalance.
We cannot carry the world on our shoulders, it is too heavy for one person to handle alone and thankfully we are not alone, we are all a part of the whole and only as a whole can we heal the imbalance that exists in the world but doing so first requires healing our self.
Every thought we have goes out from us like the ripples in a body of water and then return to us like the ocean waves, much stronger than the ripples. The key is to send out the thoughts we desire to experience so that the waves return carrying those desires.
We do not have to allow our previous experiences to define who we are and how the rest of our life will be. Each moment is a fresh start to re-create our self anew and we hold the ability to do so simply because we can “think”.
